Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Lockdown 101: What happens during a school lockdown?



I wish I could have signed up for the school lockdown class when I was in college. Now, with the frequency of lockdowns that school's have, teachers, administrators and staff could have actually taken a class about "Lockdowns."  Lockdown 101 would have been in the same category of the class about "How To Write On A Chalk Board" a course that was actually given at my undergraduate Alma mater Ball State University in Muncie, Indiana up until the late 1990's.

My first time experiencing a lockdown situation came in 2005 during what was known as the race riots of Thomas Jefferson High School. I remained silent about this experience for quite some time, but now with events that occurred at Sandy Hook Elementary School as well as the middle school lock down that was reported today, (3/20/13) in Minnesota, I feel it's time for me to speak out and give a first hand account on my experiences during a lockdown.

When there is a lockdown, it means that no one is allowed to enter or exit their location. If it is during class time, I am to lock my students into the classroom.  If it is during a passing period, I am to usher students into my classroom as quickly as possible and close the door.  These students do not have to be my assigned students. In a lock down situation, there is no such thing as my student or your student. If they are a student of the school, then they are everyones' responsibility.

My understanding of the first lockdown I experienced at Jefferson High School happened as such.  Earlier that day there was an earthquake drill where all of the students spent a great deal of idle time on the football field.  This idleness lasted until lunch.  During lunch, two African-American girls got into a fight. (There's nothing new there.)  During the fight, a Hispanic boy threw a milk carton at the two girls.  Outraged by the disrespect, an African-American football player confronted the Hispanic boy. Now there is an African-American boy and a Hispanic boy fighting and thus a "race riot" was born. The school went into its first ever lockdown.  The 93% of Hispanic students like bulls, charged at the 7% African-American students who were also belligerent in participating in what appeared to be a WWE battle royal.  LAPD were contacted and immediately surrounded the school.  As students staggered back into the classroom, many of them had cuts, and marks over their body.  These marks weren't from fighting one another. They were from the police.  As a result, these were my duties for the remainder of the day during lockdown.

1. Keep students securely in the classroom.  Because many students thought for some odd reason that they were in a race war, keeping them in the classroom was a challenge.  Many students would try to get out from the doors and the windows.  Keeping high school students safely in class when they are eager to go towards danger is not an easy task.

2.  Tend to my students wombs! Lockdown means students cannot go to the nurse.  I had students who eyes were full of mace sprayed by the cops.  I had students who had marks all over their back that were placed there by the cops.  I had to do my best with what was available to console their wombs.

3.  Opportunity Teaching! In crisis situations, students are not likely to do their assigned work, but savvy teachers know how to use the situation to teach other lessons.  In this case, lots of time was spent teaching issues such as racism, diversity, and tolerance. The students learned a lot about one another and I learned a lot about them. 

4. Cafeteria Worker! During the times when lockdowns are for hours and hours, teachers must turn into cafeteria workers.  Authorities would release a select group of teachers to go to the cafeteria and make lunches for every student that's in the classroom.  To go in-depth about the cold rubbery stuff that was suppose to be meat that I had to put on the piece of bread would be material for an entirely new blog post.

The longer the lockdown, the more problems the school staff ran into and the more stressful it became for students.  Now in 2013, it seems like lockdowns are normal and students are less likely to be effected by it.  We even have lock down drills.  But the truth of the matter is that lockdowns are serious issues rather there's a gunman loose on campus, or there is a robbery in the neighborhood.  Any of these reasons, can cause a school to be on lockdown. When that happens, it is best if students have already eaten, completed their assignments, and have used the restroom.  Otherwise at the very least, it can be a very wet and smelly experience!

Shira Dillon is a high school teacher in South, Central Los Angeles. Shira has over 15 years experience working with teenagers and is an expert with helping them and their parents deal with teenage issues. Ms. Dillon is the author of the book Sex, Drugs, and Other Elephants: How To Deal With Teenage Issues that share true stories from the authors life, as well as true stories from teenagers and how they deal with their problems. For more information about the book go to www.heyiwantthatbook.blogspot.com

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Tuesday, March 19, 2013

$22 an Hour Minimum Wage?


When Los Angeles, CA high school students heard of Sen. Elizabeth Warren (D) of Massachusetts suggestion at a recent hearing of the Senate Committee on Health, Labor, and Pensions that the current minimum wage should be $22.00 an hour, the students strongly disagreed.While the students all agreed that minimum wage should be increased, the amount of $22.00 seemed too far fetched for them. Even in a poverty stricken neighborhood, the vast majority of my high school students thought the idea of a $22 an hour minimum wage was ridiculous.

The Senator of Massachusetts based her dollar amount of $22 an hour based on this thought. If you took the minimum wage from 1960 and indexed it for workers’ gains in productivity, it would be $22 an hour today.

In spite of this rational information, my students overwhelmingly disagreed with $22.  Although, many of them experience poverty and have parents who work minimum wage jobs, the amount of $22 still seemed way too much according to my teenagers.

Alexis Whitehead, an eleventh grader at a high school in South Los Angeles, CA says that a $22 an hour minimum wage devalues those with degrees and encourages laziness.

Other students stated that a minimum wage that high, would create a chaotic catastrophe
amongst minimum wage and higher wage workers.  Unless a salary increased is created for all salaries, the increase in money, although lucrative, will represent an injustice in the world.

Hearing the responses from my students surprised me. I thought that many of them would be ready to leave school and go get a minimum wage job immediately if the minimum wage was $22 an hour.  I was wrong.  Even students who sometimes do not turn in their classwork, homework, and other work assigned, still believes in the old adage "Hard Work Pays Off."

A minimum wadge jumping from the nations average of $7.25 to $22.00 an hour is a handout that my teenage students say they do not want.

Perhaps if the minimum wage increased overtime gradually from 1960 to 2013 then the idea of $22.00 an hour would not be so far-fetch.  I know that I am in favor of some type of increase in not only the minimum wage, but an increase in all work wadges.  In California, the cost of living is high, and even with a decent salary, I can see how many people struggle financially.

In the end, it is refreshing to know while we all want to fairly receive an acceptable amount of money for our labor, this want does not over shadow the desire for the amounts to be fair.

When things present themselves as too good to be true, even my high school students know that Senator Elizabeth Warren's purposal of a $22 an hour minimum wage wouldn't come without consequences.

 In the end, my high school teenagers are in favor of working hard, getting an education, and receiving a fair wage that would represent justice for all.

Shira Dillon is a high school teacher in South, Central Los Angeles. Shira has over 15 years experience working with teenagers and is an expert with helping them and their parents deal with teenage issues. Ms. Dillon is the author of the book Sex, Drugs, and Other Elephants: How To Deal With Teenage Issues that share true stories from the authors life, as well as true stories from teenagers and how they deal with their problems. For more information about the book go to www.heyiwantthatbook.blogspot.com  Like my FB page www.facebook.com/ParentsTeachersandTeens to unite with me to help public education become a better institution of learning. Our children need it!

Monday, March 18, 2013

Stop! Read! Help! It's Your Turn Today!



Welcome to my new blog.!!! My name is Shira Dillon and I am a high school teacher in Los Angeles, CA. This blog will explore the mind and life of teenagers today and help adults better connect with them. Please come by often, add me on google+, or subscirbe so you can receive these bogs by email.
As a high school teacher, I come across students who feels that they are in crisis daily.  Being an educator is a job where I have to think on my feet fast and do whatever it is necessary to keep as many kids on the right path mentally as well as intellectually. 

In today's blog, I have included an assignment I received from a student, and I would like to know how you would handle the situation. I am hoping that today you will accept the challenge and share your expertise and quck thinking with the rest of us by leaving a comment.  If not, as long as you take the time to think about how you would deal with this situation if this was your child, neice, cousin, etc.

For those higher ups that beleive that education is all about teaching for a big test, then they need to think again.  I currently watch the show Blackboard Wars on the Oprah Winfrey Network, and truthfully I'm not fazed by what I see.  In some cases, that school is doing better than many schools I have worked in. One of the major problems with education is that many of the prevelant issues are the ones that are not being dealt with.  For years, these issues have been swept under the rug, and now we are living in a time period where the rug is touching the ceiling.

I believe that it is our duty to do our part, no matter how big or small, to help the young people today deal with their issues, problems, and/or crisis.



Student Journal:
Why did I need it to be born? Why did I need it to come to this world?  I hate my life! So yesterday I went home afterschool and everything was fine until my sister screamed at me b/c she didn’t ask for chili cheese fries, she asked for regular fries and she was screaming in my face telling me that she didn’t ask for chili cheese fries. She told me that she texted me saying regular fries and all this shit and I even showed her the text that she send me it didn’t say nothing about what she said.  Well that happened. So we went to pick up my mom and they called her saying that they send a paper with me that they need to sign.  My mom asked me to hand it to her and I did. It was a paper that has my grade for Algebra and I had a lot of F’s because I don’t do my homework, classwork, or quizzes.  She got mad and she didn’t sign it.  After that she told my sister if she wanted to go to the store with her and my sister said yes. It pissed me off cause she didn’t even asked me.  Well they took forever to come back from the store. I went to bed early like around 7pm and I brushed my teeth and got ready for bed. I was crying and crying and I couldn’t stop b/c I feel like they don’t like me and I felt like leaving the house. And well my mom and sister came and my dad ask them what was wrong with me, that why didn’t I go with them to the store.  My  mom told my dad what was happening and that’s when my dad came in my room and took the covers off me and screaming at me and I got mad and he was like hand my your phone and all this shit.  I hand it him my phone and they left to the living room and my dad was talking all this shit saying, fuck you , that I get him mad and all this shit. I started crying even more.  But before my mom came I started grabbing my neck trying to choke myself.  Because I didn’t want it to be here in the first place, I wanted to kill myself. Well this is what happened to me. I need to talk to someone that would understand me and well right now I’m not talking to my parents.

This is the reason why I started this blog.  This is what goes through the head of many teenagers each and every day. This whole idea of being in denial that its not our child or a teen we know doesn't feel this way may help our conscious temporary. But as the "Elephant in the Room" gets bigger and bigger, it gets harder and harder to pretend that teenagers don't have major problems.

The whole notion of killing herself startled me the most.  When I was in 9th grade there was a classmate of mine who killed herself because she felt that her mom loved her sister more than her. She really killed herself.  All while I was wishing I had a mom period! She was always well dressed, with her hair and nails always done, and yet in her mind, suicide was considered so much that she actually made it hapen.

It is time that we begin to really talk to our teens, and if they cannot talk to their parents then that is where aunts/uncles, cousins, and friends of the family come into place.  It does take a village to raise a child.  Join me and become apart of that village.

Shira Dillon is a high school teacher in South, Central Los Angeles.  Shira has over 15 years experience working with teenagers and is an expert with helping them and their parents deal with teenager issues. Ms. Dillon is the author of the book Sex, Drugs, and Other Elephants: How To Deal With Teenage Issues that true stories from the authors life, as well as true stories from teenagers and how they dealt with their problems.  The book also offer helpful tips and information to help anyone who's ready to expose the elephant in the room.  For more information about the book go to www.heyiwantthatbook.blogspot.com  And don't forget to like my FB page www.facebook.com/ParentsTeachersandTeens to unite with me to help public education become a better institution of learning. Our children need it!

Thursday, March 14, 2013

How Closely Do You Follow The Rules?


Today, March 12, 2013 is the day that all Californian high school students who have enough credits to be a 10th grader takes the CAHSEE. An exam that must be passed in order for a student to graduate.

The way this works is that if a student takes the test in 10th grade and do not pass, they have two more attempts in 11th and 12th grade respectively to pass the test. If they still fail the exam they will NOT be able to graduate regardless of passing grades in classes or the number of credits they have earned.

Almost all states (if not all) have some sort of exit exam to test the students knowledge in English and Math to make sure they have the basic skills needed to function as adults in society. There are rules in place that each student must follow in order to pass the test. Failure to follow these rules in its entirety results in a cancellation of all scores.

So, what kind of rules are there that teenagers must follow?

1. No cellphones, ipods, texting, computers or any other electronic devices.
2. No food or drink during the test.
3. No talking or cheating.

Yesterday, I had an activity where I asked my students what are the 3 things they do each day that takes up most of their time. Their response was the following.

1. We spend our time on our cellphones, ipods, texting, computers and other electronic devices.
2. We eat food and we drink!
3. We talk.



Hmmmmm.....so not only the questions on the test are challenging to students but just the rules on proper etiquette during the test is as equally challenging. My students have a habit of doing the very things daily that they cannot do during the graduation assessment exam.

Yesterday I dined with my boyfriend and my son at Hometown Buffet. Its like an Old Country Buffet or a Ryans. Anyway, my boyfriend and I chose to have water, while my son had soda. My boyfriend wanted to have a sip of my son's soda. My son wanted a sip of his water. Sounds like a win-win situation. However, as soon as my boyfriend took a sip, the waitress came over and told us that he violated a rule and would be force to pay $2.50 for that sip of soda. What? We already paid for the soda. Why does it matter who takes a sip?

Even after talking to the manager, we did not pay $2.50 for a sip of soda. Nor did we ever imagine that breaking their "rule" would cause such a fuss. No one took extra soda. He took a sip of my son's soda who wasn't even going to drink all of it. So what was the point?

The point is there are rules in this world in every institution regardless if they make sense to us or not. For my students, they MUST pass the exam they are taking today in order to graduate. Period. They must not violate any of the rules stated above or, I, like the waitress at the buffet yesterday (that we nicknamed Soda Police) will have to report them.

Checking a text message while waiting for others to finish the test or pulling out a phone to see what time it is may not seem like a big deal, but rules are rules. And for the next two days, I have to watch my students like a hawk, as if I'm the "soda police" And if anyone violates any of the rules, I must turn them in and their score will be terminated!

To get a free tip on how to deal with teenagers and to help them better understand the rules of life. Check out www.shiradillon.blogspot.com

Shira Dillon has a Master's degree in education and teaches high school in South Central, Los Angeles. With over 14 years of being in the classroom as a teacher, Ms. Dillon has gained the expertise of how to deal with hard to deal with teens. Her ability to relate to teenagers and form lasting relationships has been praised by administrators, teachers, parents, and teens. Ms. Dillon is the author of "Sex, Drugs, and Other Elephants: How To Deal With Teen Issues and organizes the FB fan page www.facebook.com/ParentsTeachersandTeens . She often consults parents as well as other teachers on how to deal with their teenager.
For questions or consultancy information contact Shira Dillon directly at shiradillon@gmail.com