Showing posts with label #teenagers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #teenagers. Show all posts

Friday, December 13, 2013

Is your child's school prepared for an Arapahoe HS, Sandy Hook, Columbine situation? Check out These Tips to Get Prepared!!!




One of the trainings this year for me and my fellow teachers before the start of the school year was an active shooter training led by the Los Angeles School Police.  In awake of Sandy Hook and several other school shootings, the police department made it a priority to educate teachers and other school personnel on what to do in such a dangerous situation.  If you are a parent like I am, you want to be able to rest assure that your child is safe while at school and away from your presence throughout the day.  While there is no way to guarantee safety, there are ways to make sure your child's school is prepared in case an active shooter is on campus.

1. Figure Out What’s Going On. Build Your Awareness.
The more a person knows about what’s going on, the better decisions the person will make.  Knowing the location of the active shooter is key in helping the child's school make a sound decision on what action to take next.

2. Find A Way To Survive.- Studies have shown that people who survived a life-threatening situation all had survival as their focus.  Instead of fearing being hurt, or thinking that you don’t want to die, change your thoughts into the positive and focus on Surviving. 

3. Be Well Trained For Emergencies.- Having occasional drills for the staff to know what to do in an active shooter situation, as strange as that may sound to a more "seasoned" population,  can help better impact everyone. Knowing where the exit and emergency doors are key?

4    4. Don’t Forget That You Can Leave The School.- In times pass, teachers were told that they must stay on campus at all times and cannot take kids off campus without parent permission. It was noted that teachers sometimes try to hide and protect their students in the classroom  in active shooter type situations and become“sitting ducks”. Now the police officers are spreading awareness that if one can, teachers may take the students off campus to a safe location.  Don’t wait for the active shooter to   “accidently” come across you. Leave.

5   5. If all fails, you may have to Fight Back. If you find yourself in the room with an active shooter, don’t be afraid to collectively Fight Back. Yes, I was surprise about this statement too, but police officers say that the victims almost always in a school setting out-number the shooter.  If the shooter is an “Active” shooter the officers advised coming together to throw books, charge the gunman, spread out, do whatever one need. In a case where it is inedible that someone is going to get hurt, fighting back  can possibly decreased the number of injuries.  (i.e. Think about the passengers on the flight to Pennsylvania during 911 when they collectively took down the terrorist.)

All and all, there is no way to guarantee safety if there is an active shooter at your child’s school. I know that everyday I teach my son to be a beacon of love as I hope that he will keep love surrounding him. Perfect love casts out fear.  However, since this isn’t a perfect world, and we cannot ever be completely safe, it is helpful to know what teachers, (like myself) are being taught to protect children. I teach in a high school in South Central, Los Angeles and I know if the day ever comes where there is an active shooter, I pray that my inner-spirit guides me to keep every single child safe. Ultimately, “When in doubt, trust your gut.”  Allow your gut, that infinite intelligence part of you to guide and protect you, your love ones, and your community in a state of emergency.


Shira Dillon is a high school teacher and author of Sex, Drugs, and Other Elephants: How To Deal With Teenage Issues.  A non-fiction book geared toward teenagers, teachers and parents about the honest reality of social issues that teenagers face and how to survive them. Order a book for yourself at amazon.com or purchase some for a gift.  

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

$22 an Hour Minimum Wage?


When Los Angeles, CA high school students heard of Sen. Elizabeth Warren (D) of Massachusetts suggestion at a recent hearing of the Senate Committee on Health, Labor, and Pensions that the current minimum wage should be $22.00 an hour, the students strongly disagreed.While the students all agreed that minimum wage should be increased, the amount of $22.00 seemed too far fetched for them. Even in a poverty stricken neighborhood, the vast majority of my high school students thought the idea of a $22 an hour minimum wage was ridiculous.

The Senator of Massachusetts based her dollar amount of $22 an hour based on this thought. If you took the minimum wage from 1960 and indexed it for workers’ gains in productivity, it would be $22 an hour today.

In spite of this rational information, my students overwhelmingly disagreed with $22.  Although, many of them experience poverty and have parents who work minimum wage jobs, the amount of $22 still seemed way too much according to my teenagers.

Alexis Whitehead, an eleventh grader at a high school in South Los Angeles, CA says that a $22 an hour minimum wage devalues those with degrees and encourages laziness.

Other students stated that a minimum wage that high, would create a chaotic catastrophe
amongst minimum wage and higher wage workers.  Unless a salary increased is created for all salaries, the increase in money, although lucrative, will represent an injustice in the world.

Hearing the responses from my students surprised me. I thought that many of them would be ready to leave school and go get a minimum wage job immediately if the minimum wage was $22 an hour.  I was wrong.  Even students who sometimes do not turn in their classwork, homework, and other work assigned, still believes in the old adage "Hard Work Pays Off."

A minimum wadge jumping from the nations average of $7.25 to $22.00 an hour is a handout that my teenage students say they do not want.

Perhaps if the minimum wage increased overtime gradually from 1960 to 2013 then the idea of $22.00 an hour would not be so far-fetch.  I know that I am in favor of some type of increase in not only the minimum wage, but an increase in all work wadges.  In California, the cost of living is high, and even with a decent salary, I can see how many people struggle financially.

In the end, it is refreshing to know while we all want to fairly receive an acceptable amount of money for our labor, this want does not over shadow the desire for the amounts to be fair.

When things present themselves as too good to be true, even my high school students know that Senator Elizabeth Warren's purposal of a $22 an hour minimum wage wouldn't come without consequences.

 In the end, my high school teenagers are in favor of working hard, getting an education, and receiving a fair wage that would represent justice for all.

Shira Dillon is a high school teacher in South, Central Los Angeles. Shira has over 15 years experience working with teenagers and is an expert with helping them and their parents deal with teenage issues. Ms. Dillon is the author of the book Sex, Drugs, and Other Elephants: How To Deal With Teenage Issues that share true stories from the authors life, as well as true stories from teenagers and how they deal with their problems. For more information about the book go to www.heyiwantthatbook.blogspot.com  Like my FB page www.facebook.com/ParentsTeachersandTeens to unite with me to help public education become a better institution of learning. Our children need it!